Recipe for a Pumpkin Muffin and Love

This post involves more than just a gluten-free pumpkin muffin recipe. It reminds us the impact we have on the lives of others when we intentionally try to meet their needs. It ends up blessing us both, combining our stories together in a beautiful swirl.

Three Lessons Learned

I learned a few things about gluten free baking Saturday night. Well, not this past Saturday night. It was a fall day in 2013 when I first wrote this post. But regardless of a new recipe and better pictures, the lessons learned still apply.

1) If you’re going on a gluten free baking adventure, put away the clean dishes first. Otherwise, you may end up spilling flour everywhere, coating your newly cleaned dishes in a fine dusting of gluten-free grains. And having to wash them again.

2) Tea balls make a great small sifter for flouring muffin cups. I may never use it to make tea again. (See picture above.)

3) Intentionally baking for others, regardless of the food allergy, is a very real expression of love!

A Lot Has Changed

Back in 2013, I was a relatively new blogger. At that point, I penned less than a year’s worth of posts. Instagram and SnapChat didn’t exist yet, and I had yet to tweet. I didn’t even have a Facebook page for my blog. So four years ago when someone recognized my blog name at the point, it gave me goosebumps. If I’m honest, whenever anyone is excited to meet me, I still feel a bit surprised. So if we meet in person and want to really surprise me, tell me you read this post about a pumpkin muffin recipe.

The story begins with a lunch for visitors. Consultants really. Good people, not like the consultants from Office Space that just want to downsize your business. There were consultants wanting to help a church thrive to meet the needs of our community. Since I like to feed everybody and their brother, our pastor asked if I could help arrange lunch for the group. Sure, no problem. To support a local new business, we chose to order pizza. I thought about asking him if there were any food allergies, but I failed to follow through. Which is weird for me, because I always ask.

Always Ask

You can see where this is heading right? Sure enough, one of the consultants was gluten intolerant. I felt heartbroken. Then when she was super excited because she already followed my blog, I was crushed. After all, I know what it is like to travel and not have gluten free food. A small sense of panic can set in, not to mention the sense of being left out. Usually we learn to travel with food, but she wasn’t traveling solo and staying all weekend in a town she was unfamiliar with.

And I served a fellow person needing to follow a gluten-free diet regular pizza. Major face palm.

Muffins Make Everything Better

So the next morning I hustled to make a pumpkin muffin recipe just for her. I mean, after making her feel left out the night before, it was the least I could do? Right? She graciously accepted and thanked me over and over for trying to make her feel welcome.

Some people may think I’m silly for going to all this trouble, making a last minute pumpkin muffin recipe for a lady I may never see again. However, it truly is an honor. I think back on all of the friends and family who have taken extra care due to my celiac disease. My husband was the first- bringing me gluten free flours (and flowers) while we were dating. Dead serious. He’s been my biggest cheerleader ever since, even eating gluten-free in our home to keep me safe.

Who’s Your Cheerleader?

My friend Becky was one of the first people I knew who purposely stocked gluten free salad dressings and other condiments, on the off chance that we may come over for dinner. I can’t even begin to tell you how loved that made me feel, and I’m not sure I’ve ever told her as much. Or our friends Jen & Ben, who made sure to check all ingredients for their 4-year-old’s birthday party, so we would not feel singled out in any way.

Then there’s my (now former) neighbor brought me a tub of the  gluten free cookie dough for my birthday. Not an expensive present, but it was an intentional act of love, trying to meet my needs. For that reason (and literally hundreds more) we helped them move 800+ miles to a new home. She’s definitely worth a last minute pumpkin muffin.

It’s Okay to Speak Up

So many times, we as celiacs don’t say anything about our dietary needs. We say we don’t want to be a bother. Maybe a meal has failed us and we (literally) don’t want to go through the pain again. However, sometimes when we don’t speak up, we take away the joy from someone else who wants to make us feel loved. We all deserve to feel loved. Respected. Important. So if someone can do it safely, let them do it. In return, if you can go out of your way to make someone else’s day, do it. You won’t regret it.

Back to the Pumpkin Muffin Recipe

When I first wrote this back in 2013, I didn’t save my pumpkin muffin recipe. I think I created it from a Betty Crocker recipe, throwing in random leftover flours I had left. While resourceful, it doesn’t help if  you want to recreate this recipe for yourself.

I mean, there are loads of great pumpkin muffin recipes out there. Some are free of eggs and dairy like these gluten free vegan pumpkin spice muffins from Sarah Bakes Gluten Free. Some are loaded with cream cheese like these Healthy Pumpkin Cream Cheese Muffins from Veggie Balance.

Why I Love Dessert For Two

I chose to play with a recipe from one of my new favorite (non-gluten-free) blogs, Dessert for Two. I switched out the 3/4 c of flour she calls for in her Pumpkin Nutella Muffins with a blend of banana flour and rice flour. Because I had banana flour left over. Now adays, I substitute King Arthur Flour Measure for Measure in most of her recipes with success.

I also wrote this recipe with a blend of brown sugar and white sugar. You can do straight white sugar if you prefer. Since her recipe only calls for a 1/3 cup of pumpkin, that allows you to make other pumpkin goodies. For example, my egg-free gluten-free pumpkin chai snickerdoodles. Your egg intolerant friends will totally love you for it.

So there you have it. A pumpkin muffin recipe that uses the bits ends of what I have around. Sometimes the bits and pieces we have, however small, are more than enough to make a difference.

When has someone gone out of their way to meet your food allergy needs? How did it make you feel? When you have taken an intentional step to make sure the needs of others were met? 

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